I ask for you not to get upset over little things. Not to freak out over something happening. Or when something goes wrong, dont lose youre shit because its probably not that big of a deal. And you treat me as bad as i treat you, i just dont get emotional, i get mad. And when you are mad its over the smallest thing that doesn’t even matter. And then you dont talk to me calmly about anything, you always go crazy and assume the worst out of any situation. Our arguments would go much smoother if you would stop worring about us breaking up all the time. Like if we argue, dont assume that we are going to break up. Just because we are arguing doesn’t mean its the end of the world. I try to push thing off and try to let the little things go. But when i do, you womt let them go. Like when i said, drop it, at walgreens, you wouldnt. I cant let things go that keep gettimg brought up. I think we spend totoo much time togeather. You dont go out enough, and because you are always with me you have no time to be with your friends. we are always conserened about eachother and what the other person is doing to actualy care about eachoother. Weve lost what we used to be and have become two people who bickerand fight and argue over anything that happens, Weve lost ourselfs. Were have our heads to far up eachothers asses that we cant even tell stories about what weve done or how our day has went because we know everything that has happened. We are going to lose each other very soon if we dont fix ourselves So here is my solution to the problem. First we have to stop thinking that we are in a shitty relationship, we need to act like we are an unbreakable couple. Nothing can destory us, we need to be strong and forget about everything that has happened and ;eave it all behind us because it is all small things that dont matter. We need to stop thinking we are going to breakup and stop bringing it up. We arent going to and i doubt it will ever happen. Step two is to listen to each other more, pay attition to what the other person is saying. Think about what they are saying and actually put a thought or two iinto a response before awensering. Finally we need to stop worrying about everything. We are two smart people and the stress of our lives cannot effect our relationship. Yes life is stressful, but rather tan taking it out on the other person, talk about it. We can be mad just dont be mad at the other person. I really feel that if you fully understand what im trying to say that we will be perfect again.
“Time and Tide Wait for No Man” | Randy Grskovic | Analogue Collage
Hippie store, 1960’s